Psychosexual Therapist in London & Online UK | Clarity Sessions
COSRT Registered Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist
Registered Nurse | Relational and Sexual Function Specialist | Psychosexologist
If something in your sex life or relationship isn’t working, you’re not alone
For many people, things don’t suddenly “go wrong” - they shift gradually over time.
Sex and intimacy might have started to feel:
pressured, rather than natural
less frequent, or easier to avoid
mismatched between partners
different from how it used to feel
or simply “off”, without a clear reason why
You might find yourself:
overthinking it
avoiding it
unsure how to start a conversation about it
The good news is, you don’t need to have it all figured out
Most people I work with don’t come in with a clear diagnosis or label for what’s going on.
They’re usually at the point of:
“Something isn’t working here, but I don’t fully understand why.”
That’s exactly where we start.
My role is to help you:
make sense of what’s going on
identify the patterns that may be contributing
decide what to do next
In a structured, practical way, grounded in psychological, emotional and physical understanding.
I’m Nia Jane — Psychosexologist, Registered Nurse & Sex and Relationship Therapist in London and working online across the UK and worldwide
My background combines healthcare and psychological training with around 12 years’ experience supporting people through some of the most intimate and complex aspects of their lives, including sexual and relational difficulties.
My approach is:
Evidence-based - grounded in current research and clinical practice
Relatable - clear, straightforward language without unnecessary jargon
Inclusive - working comfortably and affirmatively with kink, polyamory, neurodivergence and gender diversity
You can expect professionalism, warmth, and a non-judgemental space - focused on getting to the root of what’s going on.
I work with a range of sexual and relationship concerns, including:
If your concern doesn’t quite fit into a neat category, that’s completely fine. We’ll figure it out together.
What to Expect From A Clarity Consult
I recommend that new clients begin with a Clarity appointment - a focused, clinically structured conversation starting point, to help us understand what’s been happening and map out the most appropriate next steps for you.
This is not a casual chat or a sales call. It’s a purposeful session where we begin making sense of your situation in a clear, practical and helpful way.
What happens when I book a Clarity Session?
You can use the button above to book in for your session directly. Please reach out via email or my Contact Form prior to payment if you are unsure whether or not I can help with your issue.
Once I have a brief understanding of what your concerns are or what you’d like to explore within the session, I’ll start to put together a tailored preassessment package that covers the essentials of what I need to know before meeting you, in order to make the most of our time together.
I’ll provide you with an online link to this preassessment package, which will need to be completed before our appointment
What we’ll cover in the session
During your 20min Clarity session, we will:
Explore the main concerns bringing you to therapy
Clarify your goals
Identify what a meaningful or ‘successful’ therapy outcome would look like
Identify contributing patterns
Consider suitable next steps
Assess whether working together feels like the right fit
What you’ll leave with
By the end of the session, you will have:
A clearer understanding of what may be going on
A more defined direction forward
Initial, targeted strategies, where appropriate
A recommendation on the most suitable next steps
A selection of personalised resources and exercises, where appropriate